
Online Trauma Therapy for Women in Sandpoint, Coeur d’Alene, and Post Falls
A space for women to let go of people-pleasing and perfectionism to embrace their authentic, messy selves.
Being a woman who carries the weight of everyone’s needs on her shoulders is incredibly challenging.
And so is being a woman who never feels good enough.
Do you spend hours stressing over your house not being clean, knowing that you won’t be able to relax until everything is exactly how it's supposed to be?
You feel like you live in a constant state of chaos, and no matter how hard you try, the chaos seems to follow you.
Is dinner going to be ready on time?
Do I even know what to make for dinner?
Don’t forget to sign Johnny up for soccer tonight.
Did I send that email before I left work?
Ugh, I’m so tired. Pizza and a movie it is. You numb out to avoid all the tasks running through your mind.
All you want to do is relax, but even relaxing feels like a chore because your mind is going through all the “shoulds” and “have to’s” of your life.
I should feed myself and my kids better.
I should limit family screen time.
I have to pick up the kitchen before bed.
I have to get in a few hours of work when the kids go to bed.
I should start exercising.
I should spend more quality time with my family.
I have to help Suzy move this weekend, even though all I want is to stay home.
To those around you, you seem to have it all together— the picture-perfect life.
✔️ A great job
✔️ An amazing marriage
✔️ Wonderful and gifted children
But to you, it all feels like a FACADE: fake, overwhelming, and chaotic. A constant struggle to maintain this picturesque life and a deep desire to feel a sense of balance and calm.
I see you.
I see your need to make sure everyone in your life is taken care of.
I see you exhausting yourself to make sure your kids have everything you didn’t.
I see you reaching for that glass of wine or your phone to numb this gnawing feeling inside, telling you you're not good enough.
I am sorry you are going through this.
I don’t want this for you.
I want you to have the life you dreamt of as a little girl—the one where you felt truly happy and connected to those around you, the life where you were free to be YOU and not shackled to pleasing and perfectionism.
Healing is possible, and Trauma Therapy can help!
I help women celebrate their imperfections, embrace their true desires, and find their voice.
I am a compassionate, somatic-based therapist trained in EMDR therapy, Brainspotting therapy, and the Trauma-Conscious Yoga Method.
My therapeutic approach aims to help you heal from past trauma and rediscover the amazing woman you were placed on this earth to be!
Hi, I’m Jarae.
I am a Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor and trauma therapist.
I specialize in working with women who are done putting themselves last and ready to take back their control.
They want a voice.
They want the freedom to do less-than-perfect work and still feel good about themselves.
They want to break free from the expectations placed on women today to embrace their free spirit within.
They want to heal from the impact of trauma so they can feel confident in their own bodies.
They are ready to let go of the chaos and start living for themselves.
I help Women heal their trauma so they can:
Start putting themselves first and prioritizing their own needs
Embrace their imperfections and love their body
Speak their truth and not feel guilty
Trust themselves and their decisions
Say “no” when they mean “no.”
Let go of perfectionism so they can start enjoying themselves
Master the art of self-compassion
Set boundaries in relationships with ease
Feel more connected and fulfilled in their relationships
Feel confident in who they are as a woman
Woman who have worked with me have said things like:
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"Jarae understands me and my struggles. She has made it easy for me to feel comfortable enough to work through my trauma. "
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"I have learned so much about myself and how my trauma has affected me today. I’m so much more aware of my body and its triggers."
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"After doing brainspotting with Jarae, I now feel more in control of my emotions, and I don’t get activated by things like I used to."
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"I just love coming to talk to Jarae. She challenges me but in a good way. I never feel judged by her."
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"Before coming to see Jarae, I felt disconnected from myself. She taught me about the nervous system and how to work through and sit with difficult emotions."
Healing Is Possible
It’s easy to think that the struggles you are experiencing right now will last forever. You might have tried multiple different approaches in the past with no success. You WANT to feel whole again and can’t figure out why you break all the promises you set for yourself. You WANT to start each day feeling open, curious, and connected. You WANT to look at life and see the bright and vibrant colors of happiness.
I want this for you, too.
Trauma therapy can give you the sense of peace you are looking for. You will learn about yourself, love yourself, and, most importantly, heal from those childhood wounds that have influenced your ability to accept who you are and feel deep, meaningful connections.
Please contact me to schedule a free 15-minute consultation and learn more about how I can help you become the best version of yourself.
FAQs for Trauma Therapy
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Mountain River Therapy offers a free 15-minute consultation call to see if we are a good fit. After this call, the fee is $150 for a 50-minute individual session.
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Mountain River Therapy is an insurance-friendly practice. While I don't directly accept insurance, you may have out-of-network benefits. I've partnered with Mentaya, a service that streamlines getting reimbursed for your therapy sessions through out-of-network benefits.
Mentaya is perfect if you:
• Have out-of-network benefits
• Feel overwhelmed by superbills and insurance
• Have submitted superbills but failed to get any reimbursement
• Simply want to skip the hassle of paperwork.
Here's how it works:
1. Sign up for Mentaya.
2. My practice will enter your sessions into the platform.
3. Mentaya submits the claim and handles any insurance follow-up.
4. You get reimbursed by insurance!
Mentaya charges a 5% fee per claim, which includes handling any paperwork required, dealing with denials, and calling insurance companies.
It's risk-free: They guarantee claims are successfully submitted or a full refund of their fees.
There are limitations to using insurance for therapy, such as restrictions on the number of sessions, requiring a clinical diagnosis, and potential breaches of confidentiality. By not taking insurance, I can offer a more personalized approach, tailored specifically to your needs, without the constraints often imposed by insurance companies. This allows us to focus solely on your therapeutic goals and progress.
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Your credit card information will be securely stored in our HIPAA-compliant EHR system. The card on file will be charged before the start of each session. You can use HSA and FSA cards for payment, and you have the flexibility to change the credit card on file at any time.
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Mountain River Therapy accepts credit cards, debit cards, HSA, and FSA cards. Payments are processed before the start of each session, and invoices or receipts will be provided upon request.
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Online counseling is convenient, and allows you to access counseling from the comfort of your own home from Mountain River Therapy’s secure video platform.
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We all want to know how long therapy for disordered eating and body image will take. The truth is, therapy is different for everyone. How long it takes depends on how much time and effort you put into making changes. Some people might see progress in a few months, while others may take longer. It's important to be patient with yourself as you work on healing your relationship with food and your body. Therapy is a personal journey, and everyone moves at their own pace.
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Yes, you can heal from disordered eating and body image issues. Through therapy, you will address the underlying causes, such as trauma and low self-esteem, and learn more helpful coping strategies. Therapy helps you build a peaceful relationship with food and your body, overcoming patterns like emotional eating, binge eating, and restrictive eating. With time, effort, and the proper support, you can achieve lasting change and live a more balanced life.
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Mountain River Therapy requires at least 24 hours' notice for cancellations. Cancellations made less than 24 hours before the scheduled session or missed appointments will incur the full fee of $150.
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Mountain River Therapy offers a free 15-minute initial consultation to discuss your needs and see if we are a good fit.
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As of January 2022, healthcare organizations are required to provide patients who either do not have insurance or are not using insurance with an estimate of the total cost for medical items and services. You have the right to receive a Good Faith Estimate for the total expected cost of any non-emergency items or services. Additionally, you can request a Good Faith Estimate from your therapist, provider, health care organization, or any other organization you choose, before you schedule an item or service. If you receive a bill that is at least $400 more than your Good Faith Estimate, you have the right to dispute the bill. Make sure to save a copy or picture of your Good Faith Estimate for your records. For questions or more information about your right to a Good Faith Estimate, visit www.cms.gov/nosurprises or call 1-800-985-3059.
If you are ready, please reach out to start trauma therapy today.
You don’t have to live with the constant need to get everything perfect, the deep desire to please everyone but yourself, and living in a constant state of overanalyzing everything you do. My online therapy practice in Idaho can help you heal from the trauma binding you to unhelpful behaviors and help you embrace imperfection and authenticity. Mountain River Therapy in Sandpoint, serving Coeur d’Alene, Post Falls, and throughout Idaho, specializes in helping women who are tired of living life for others and are ready to feel calm, confident, and healed. To start your counseling journey, follow these simple steps:
Step 1
Contact Mountain River Therapy
Step 2
Meet with Jarae, a trauma therapist, for an intake session.
Step 3
Rediscover the joy of feeling fully connected to yourself, your body, and those you love!